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Jon Birger brought the issue forward in the feature in August 2015 entitled “Mormons and Jews “What 2 Religions Say About the Modern Dating Crisis” identified the Shidduch Crisis.The crisis is based on demographics, there are more young women of marriageable age, which is 18–19-years-old and up in the community’s standards than young men, who usually start getting married after they complete Yeshiva at 22–23-years-old.Like every other issue in the Jewish community, it is swept under the rug and glossed over.If there is anything written they are geared to those in their twenties who are in shidduchim or who still can be involved with youth groups, whether at university, the local synagogue or through Israel trips and would find it easier to meet a nice Jew to date and settle down.Queens College sociology professor Samuel Heilman, spoke with about the Orthodox world’s disregard for the individual and reliance on the community in the article “Ultra-Orthodox Jews Panicked Over Shidduch Matchmaking Crisis.” Heilman explained, “It’s all about communal ties. For the women, it’s about school, the children, other mothers.

Considering the problems with intermarriage especially among the millennial generation and the recent matchmaking, Shidduch Crisis, one would think more has been written about the subject to help navigate through the unique problems marriage minded Jews face.Married couples and those with babies and children usually hang out with those in similar situations because they have more in common and often view single people as a threat.That philosophy crosses over into the workplaces as well, where employers promote married people, especially with children because they deem them more trustworthy and stable.Sometimes I think I should’ve picked someone when I was 25 and stupid, and then just made it work.”Unfortunately, in this modern age, most of the men at least I have encountered and observed want the women to adopt their interests and are not do not care about the women’s, they go on and on about themselves.When you are younger, it is easier to comply and just go with the men’s interests, because you are still exploring what you want.

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