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When we get older, we can either cling to our fantasies and get bitter or depressed that our hopes are never fulfilled; or we can adjust our expectations and learn to appreciate people for who they are rather than pick them apart for who they are not.
Many times people say, “There’s just no good options out there.” That might be true, or it might also be true that you just can’t see the good options because your standards are too high and you can’t see over them.
If a Christian guy or girl comes along that you are interested in or attracted to, you shouldn’t just sit back and see what happens like you did when you were 20.
As you know, the older you get the less options there are.
There are a lot of beautiful Christian single moms and strong Christian single dads out there that have grown from their past life experiences and are now ready to be a great spouse. You should never marry someone you don’t actually love.
But I think some people say “Never settle” and Christian singles hear “Never date someone who isn’t exactly what you dreamed about.” Our thoughts, dreams, and expectations as young people rarely match reality.
There’s nothing wrong with marrying someone like you, but you might be limiting some great options if you never start dating outside of your box. Start looking to date someone like you’ve never dated before. I’m not saying you compromise on you values or violate God’s word.
There are oftentimes good options out there, but there are never perfect options out there.
So I’m not saying you need to lower your standards if you are getting older and are still single.
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