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Offering invaluable insights for students, parents, and educators, Lisa Wade analyzes the mixed messages of hookup culture on today’s college campuses within the history of sexuality, the evolution of higher education, and the unfinished feminist revolution.She draws on broad, original, insightful research to explore a challenging emotional landscape, full of opportunitie Offering invaluable insights for students, parents, and educators, Lisa Wade analyzes the mixed messages of hookup culture on today’s college campuses within the history of sexuality, the evolution of higher education, and the unfinished feminist revolution.The book is historically grounded, empirically rich, and completely engaging throughout.I'll use this book in courses I teach on sexualities, but I'll be ordering copies for friends and family, too.*3.5 stars*A serious academic looks at hookup culture in the round, terrifying anyone who wishes they could relive their undergrad days. There's an anthropological strain here, which dispassionately looks at the culture, its norms, and its understood rules, including an almost deep-play Geertzian explanation of grinding.She also tries briefly at the end to suggest how to fix it, and that chapter is definitely the weakest part. But some things did surprise me, like how the research showed that this hookup culture is mostly embraced by white students. It broke my heart to read how some girls felt obligated to do things they didn't want to do. And the sexual assaults—we know this is an epidemic on college campuses. Yes, that type of hookup experience wasn't the case for everyone and there was enjoyment to be had, but it didn't seem to be so for the majority.This trend has come out of our new freedoms and mores (birth control, less social stigma) and new ways of connecting (social media, more interaction online and anonymous than in person). An interesting discussion in the book is how hookup culture favors the men, as in the men are gaining the most and receiving the most pleasure. My heart broke many times for these young men and women who force themselves to shut out all emotion to have "Stunning. Especially because of the culture, which lacks kindness and compassion.

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She has a knack for clearly explaining insights from sociological research to public audiences in ways that do not detract from the level of sophistication of the science. This book may be written to be read by anyone with an interest in the topic, but it's also a brilliant research project, carefully constructed to provide new information about a pressing social issue.The obvious callouts are here, but the main message is that hookup perpetuates white, hetero, gender stereotypes for both men and women. Never has someone observed things so well but gotten the conclusions so wrong.Wade fails to see that there is no making a healthy hookup culture.She draws on broad, original, insightful research to explore a challenging emotional landscape, full of opportunities for self-definition but also the risks of isolation, unequal pleasure, competition for status, and sexual violence.Accessible and open-minded, compassionate and honest, American Hookup explains where we are and how we got here, asking, “Where do we go from here?

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