Too many men online dating
Especially when it comes to men trying to write to women.For all the talk about “The End of Men” and how gender roles have been obliterated and women can write to men first, blahblahblah, here’s what ACTUALLY happened after four months:– The women as a group received over 20 times more messages than the men.– The two most attractive women received 83% of all messages.– The two most attractive women probably would have received several thousand more if their inboxes hadn’t have reached maximum capacity.– It took 2 months, 13 days for the most popular woman’s inbox to fill up.
Her question was how to juggle this and make it work to her advantage.
I have dedicated an entire volume of my bestselling audio series, Finding the One Online to how to write emails just like this.
Online dating may be a jungle, but it’s a jungle with a LOT of single people, so it’s best to learn how to master the process.
I loved this question because as a dating coach, you don’t see too many new challenges under the sun.
My client’s inclination was to try to see all 4 guys this week before she left. The problem with this is threefold: First, you can’t give very much time and attention to four guys in a week.